Finally Put to a Quote

It's a theory I've been bouncing around for a long time, I've said it to numerous people in various words, but I've finally put it to an actual quote as eloquently as I can.

"If you believe in falling in love with the person and not their physical characteristics then you MUST support bisexuality or you don't really believe it, for gender is nothing more than a physical characteristic." ~ERH

the only thing I regret about this is that I can't fully explain everything. If you take someone you fall in love with and you remove their personality, their experiences, everything about who they are but you put them in someone who is much uglier you still love them right? If you do the same thing and put it in someone who has a disability of some kind because of a recent accident, you still love them right? So why is it when you do the same thing but put the personality in someone of the opposite sex everyone cringes and goes now wait that's not right! I realize that you can't remove personalities and experiences etc. but that doesn't matter. The point is that we look at gender before we look at anything else. For example, if a man would say "wow, what great hair." I guarentee if a male had that same hairstyle his reaction would have been totally different. It's the first thing we notice and it sets the pace for everything else we think. Why is so much emphasis placed on gender? what about those that don't really even have a gender and only choose a gender so they have a prounoun? I don't know...I'm getting off on a tangent here and I don't even know what I'm saying anymore because as it turns out everything I'm saying kind of falls apart because of what I'm saying. haha ahhh well hopefully something I said in here made sense to someone